The Danner RAT boots are great, but heavy.
If you want 8” combat boot kinda stuff, you could look at Bates and Belleville boots. Cheaper than Danner, not as good of warranty or quality, but they’re lighter, cheaper, and still offer a lot of the same qualities.
After getting out of the gun club I have mostly gotten away from combat boots. I’ve found trail running shoes to be a great choice for me. I get the comfort and agility of shoes, with the traction of mild cleats, and still have a little protection and durability that you would want from a combat boot.
I wear Altra shoes, their athletic shoes for the gym, and their trail running shoes for just about everything else. Most of their offerings give you enough room for prescription insoles if you need them, they have very generous toe boxes if you have wide feet. They also offer high tops.
www.altrarunning.com
You mention rocks in your shoes and shit. A lot of trail running shoes have points to attach gaiters to them. That will typically prevent your problems.
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I find most Altras are made for wide feet. I used to wear Salomon’s, but they’re typically very narrow. If you’re near OKC I suggest checking with REI or Red Coyote and see what they have/get fitted. Red coyote actually has you walk on a treadmill and they analyze your gait and how you walk, and can really help with getting what you need.